Your uniqueness is what makes you special in the eyes of God. Many of us betray our greatness by focusing on who other people are, and what they are doing instead of seeing the distinctive beauty of God in their lives. Jealousy destroys the potency of our passion and commitment to only focus on what God has bestowed on us. We feel that we need to compete for what others have rather than cultivate the discipline to mature into our fullness and greatness in life.
Jealousy can irritate and aggravate the intricate settled and established order of life. The reason is that trying to become who you are not, is equivalent to trying to take what does not really belong to you. This is why jealousy can open the door to violence and violence can lead to dangerous outcomes.
Jealousy can keep you out of your personal inheritance as a child of God. Always, your distinctive quality is what makes you especially valuable, and not your similarity to others. Jealousy is like the green eye monster — the eye color suddenly changes into red. You are never yourself with jealousy because it opens your life to the enemy’s manipulation and control. Learn to embrace who you are and grow to maturity and expertise, and you will see how people will celebrate your special gift in life. You are different! You are unique! And you are very special in life!